Trust that they're making their lives work in the way that they're making their lives work. And just teach through the power of your example.
Hypothetically, people worry about everyone being selfishly oriented. "If everyone did exactly what they want to do, what kind of world would this be?" And we say, a really, really good one. Because if everyone did what they wanted to do, everyone would feel free. And if you feel free, you feel empowered. And every negative emotion that exists—hear this—every negative emotion that exists is because there is some sense of loss of freedom somewhere in there.Abraham
"A wealth of information creates a poverty of attention." ~ Daniel Goleman